Southampton FC boss Ronald Koeman says smartphones are hampering his players’ communication skills. Is modern technology depriving us of the ability to communicate well?

A minute of the 2011 Carling Cup final remained. The score was 1-1. A hopeful punt entered the Arsenal penalty area. As the defender and goalkeeper stood hesitantly, the ball rebounded to Birmingham City striker Obafemi Martins, who rolled it into the empty goal.

Lapses in communication can cost football teams greatly. Now, one manager thinks players are getting worse at talking to each other — and blames modern technology. Southampton boss Ronald Koeman says players’ attachment to their smartphones is harming their performance.

‘There is not enough communication on the pitch,’ says Koeman. ‘That’s all about social media. When I was playing, we played cards on the coach to matches. Now, everyone puts on his headphones and is in his own world.’

Koeman says the problem particularly affects young players. He has introduced training exercises ‘which are all about focus, communication and concentration’.

His point appears relevant to wider society. One British study in 2011 found 51% of adults and 65% of teenagers had used their phones while socialising. Some evidence suggests this is ruining our ability to talk to each other.

In one experiment, people said conversations where someone had pulled out a phone were less fulfilling. Psychology professor Shalini Misra says reduced eye contact and the difficulty of spotting subtle clues in body language make people feel less connected to each other.

She adds phones make us feel compelled to multitask and cultivate many shallow friendships with people we rarely see. This causes resentment among family and close friends.

The first smartphone, the Simon Personal Communicator, was launched in 1992. Now, more than three-quarters of British adults own a smartphone.

A falling number of people are using them to make calls, but users spend an average of 3.6 hours per day on them; 35% use them in areas where they are banned; and 13% are addicted to them. There is now even an app which limits the time users spend on their devices.

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Some say technology is destroying our ability to communicate. Phones allow us to hide from reality — we can chat to people online, even though doing so is less meaningful than meeting them; avoid making small talk, which cultivates relationships and helps us engage with strangers; and pretend everyone is listening to us, instead of listening to others.

Embrace the change, respond others — we can now talk to who we want, how we want, when we want. Technology is making face-to-face communication redundant, small talk is becoming less relevant and we no longer need to spend time with people to form relationships with them. Phones are preparing young people for the world that awaits them.

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